@jonas I am so sorry! I had to create another account because I mismanaged my password for the original account and I keep asking for a password reset but no email comes ....
AT ANY RATE, you were right I was wrong. It's working PERFECTLY. I started thinking about your comments and I went back in and changed one thing and now its working great. The only thing I made sure I did not do, is mount the SANDISK using the Disks app. I instead just mounted it using Strawberry only.
Now I have sync happening. And I wrote down my sequence so I don't screw it up again 
Thanks! Laura